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HII DUNIA SASA KWELI INAELEKEA UKINGONI: HUKO AFRIKA KUSINI WANAUME HAWA WAWILI PICHANI WAMEFANIKIWA KUPACHIKWA MIMBA NA KUJIFUNGUA WATOTO 3 KWA HAKIKA UKISTAAJABU YA MUSA


WANAUME wawili wanaoishi kama mume na mke (mashoga) nchini Afrika Kusini wanasemekana kuwa watu wa kwanza katika ukanda huo na huenda duniani kwa kuwa wazazi wa mapacha watatu, wawili wakiwa wanafanana, kwa kupitia mtu mwingine aliyebeba mimba.

Wazazi hao ambao walikuwa majirani na mwanamichezo za zamani mlemavu, Oscar Pistorius, walikutana na mtu waliyempatia mbegu zao wakati wa mashitaka ya mauaji yaliyokuwa yanamkabili.
Christo na Theo Menelaou wamewachukua watoto wao nyumbani kwao mjini Pretoria baada ya kukaa hospitali kwa wiki tatu za matatizo.  Kutokana na kuzaliwa kabla ya wakati wao, Julai 2, mapacha hao walijikuta maisha yao yakining’inia kati ya uhai na kifo.

couple (1)Joshua alikuwa mtoto wa kwanza kuzaliwa kwa njia ya upasuaji na ndiye alikuwa mzito kuliko wote akiwa na uzito wa kilo 1.8; Zoe alifuatia akiwa na kilo 1.3 na Kate aliyekuwa na kilo 1.3 pia.

Watoto hao waliwekwa kwenye mashine za kuwasaidia kupumua hadi walipokuwa na nguvu za kutosha na kuweza kuondoka katika hospitali ya Sunninghill ya Johannesburg.

Waliondoka siku tofauti kwenda nyumbani, ambapo Joshua alikuwa wa kwanza kuruhusiwa siku ya Julai 22,  akafuata Zoe aliyeruhusiwa siku kumi baadaye na Kate ambaye aliruhusiwa Agosti 4.
Christo Menelaou aliliambia shirika la utangazaji la Sky News: “Ukiwa shoga, siku zote unafikiri kwamba haiwezekani ukawa mzazi hata kama una upendo kiasi gani.

“Ni vigumu kupewa mtoto wa kuasili na kila mara tuliambiwa kwamba ni wazazi wa kawaida tu ndiyo huruhusiwa.  Pia hatukuweza kufikiri kwamba tungempata mtu ambaye angekubali kubeba mbegu za mashoga.

Hata hivyo, mama mmoja mwenye watoto watatu, waliyekutana naye wakati wa mashitaka ya Pistorious, alikubali kutubebea mbegu zetu.”

Sheria za Afrika Kusini kuhusu upandikizaji wa mbegu kwa watu wengine, iliwataka wanaume wote wawili hao, mtu mwenye kubeba mbegu zao na mumewe wasaini mkataba mbele ya jaji kusisitiza kwamba walikubaliana kwa hiari katika jambo hilo na kwamba pasingekuwepo na kupeana fedha au kubeba gharama zozote.

Wawili hao walikwenda kwenye benki ya mayai na kuchagua mayai  ambapo yai moja lilirutubishika  na mbegu ya Christo na kuwekwa katika tumbo la mbeba mimba na baadaye aliwekewa yai lililokuwa na mbegu ya Theo.

Baada ya wiki kumi za mimba hiyo, uchunguzi ulionyesha kwamba moja ya mayai hayo yaliyorutubishika lilikuwa limejitenga na mbeba mimba alikuwa ana mapacha watatu, wawili wakiwa ni wenye kufanana.

Wakati ambapo madaktari wengi waliwashauri wanaume hao kwamba mbeba mimba huyo akatishe uhai wa mapacha wawili ili kutoa fursa ya mtoto wa tatu kuendelea bila matatizo, hatimaye walimpata mtaalam wa masuala ya watoto ambaye alisema angewasaidia jinsi ya kuhakikisha watoto hao wanazaliwa salama.

Dk Heidra Dahms, ambaye ni mtaalam wa masuala ya watoto katika Hospitali ya Sunninghill na aliyesimamia kuzaliwa kwa watoto hao, aliliambia shirika la Sky News : “Ni jambo adimu sana.  Sijawahi kusikia kitu kama hicho hata siku moja.”

Watoto walikuwa ni wadogo mno, mapafu yao yalihitaji msaada wa ziada ili kupumua na Theo alilazimikakulala kando ya kitanda hadi walipopata nguvu.

Hata hivyo, wazazi hao wanakabiliwa na changamoto ya kumfanyia upasuaji Zoe kutokana na kasorokwenye moyo, upasuaji ambao unahitajika kufanyika katika kipindi cha miezi sita.
Pamoja na yote hayo, wawili hao  wanasherehekea kuitwa ‘baba’, jambo ambalo hawakutegemea kamwe lingewezekana.

Hivi sasa wanaendelea kuwatunza watoto wao hao watatu nyumbani kwao kwa msaada wa mayaya wawili usiku na mchana ambapo kila mtoto amefungwa kidude kinachotoa sauti iwapo watashindwa kupumua.

Theo alisema: “Tunalazimika kuwasugua taratibu kwenye migongo yao au kutekenya vidole vyao ili kuwakumbusha kupumua.

“Tunajisikie tumebarikiwa sana,” alisema kwa furaha.

http://www.udakuspecially.com/2016/08/wanaume-wazaa-mapacha-watatu-wa.html

WOMEN LEARN THESE 5 THINGS YOUR HUSBANDS NEED IN THE BEDROOM - THEY ARE NECESSARY FOR YOUR MARRIAGE




  • The key to a successful marriage is unselfishness. If you can put your spouse's needs above your own, you are on the right track. Having the desire to fulfill your husband's needs is in no way submitting yourself to an inferior role as a wife. If you truly love your spouse, then you want to make him happy, and these five things generally make men happy — simple as that.


    Every man's needs are different; however, according to Willard F. Harley Jr., most men have the same basic needs. While each person is unique, these needs are what most men pick on average.

    1. Recreational companionship

  • My husband and I are a classic example of a couple with hardly anything in common, especially when it comes to hobbies. We enjoy doing our own things — which can be good in a marriage. But when we spend time together doing what he likes, it's often a win-win. Spending the evening golfing with my husband was never something I would have chosen, but I ended up having a great time. In fact, it was one of the best dates I have ever been on. Show your husband you care about him by showing some interest in his hobbies. He may even return the favor and spend the day doing what you want to do!

    2. Sexual fulfillment

  • This can be a touchy subject, but it's an important one. One thing my husband and I have learned is to never treat intimacy like a game — to never withhold it as punishment. Doing so only intensifies feelings of negativity and resentment. Intimacy brings couples together better than anything, and if it's important to your husband, it needs to be important to you. Whether or not marital intimacy is special depends on the attitude and effort of those involved.

    3. Admiration

  • In a healthy relationship, your husband is doing his part — whether that's having a career, going to school, staying home with children, etc. Most of his actions may go unnoticed. For example, my husband works 8-10 hours a day, then spends his evenings going to school or doing homework. You may not physically see how much your husband does for your family every day, which can make his efforts easier to forget — out of sight, out of mind. Remember, as often as possible, show and tell your husband how much you love and appreciate all he does for you.

    4. Domestic support

  • Domestic support involves the creation of a peaceful and well-managed home environment. You and your husband may share household chores and other home responsibilities equally, or your husband may need you to handle these responsibilities more often if he is busy handling others. Again, in a healthy relationship, your husband should be doing his part. If this is the case, fulfill hubby's needs by cooking meals, washing dishes, keeping your home clean, etc.

    5. An attractive spouse

  • As a wife of almost 12 years, I know how familiar and comfortable wives can get with their husbands — which is great. As a mother of four, I know how easy it is to stay in my pajamas all day, how luxurious it is to wait and shower when I actually have five minutes of privacy. Some days are like that, and that's OK, but don't let this type of thing become a habit. Put effort into making yourself attractive to your spouse. If you don't see your husband until he walks in the door 30 seconds before dinnertime, schedule a few minutes beforehand to freshen yourself up. I started doing this a couple years ago and noticed a positive difference in my husband's mood when he came home. Bonus: it makes me feel great, too.


    Examining these five needs is a great way to look deeper into your marriage to determine your husband's individual needs. Whether a marriage is in trouble or not, when spouses fulfill each other's needs, the marriage becomes stronger.

    Original link:
    https://familyshare.com/20288/marriage/your-husband-has-5-basic-needs-are-you-meeting-them

INDEED THE WORLD IS NOT SHORT OF SUPPLIES OF WONDERS: A WIFE SHARED HER HUSBAND WITH HER TWIN SISTER FOR SO LONG WITHOUT THE HUSBAND REALISING IT

 My husband doesn’t know I share him with my twin sister - Wife confesses
The wife wrote :

Growing up, my bff was my sister. We did everything together, from playing with the same toys, to reading the same books and eating the same food. We even had the same friends in school.

Woman Explains How She Shares Her Husband With Her Twin Sister Without Him Knowing; Now She’s Jealous And Want It To Stop But Is Too Afraid To Let Her Sister Know

This might seem strange to some people, but it’s because May* is my twin sister… and they say twins share an affinity.

I have never felt that I needed anyone else in my life other than May. She’s not just a sister and best friend, she’s my confidante whom I can trust all my secrets to. Even when we went to different colleges, our bonds did not break.

We might have developed some different friends and priorities then, but we still talked about everything and shared everything… from new interests to gossip in school… and cute boys we liked.

Not long after we both graduated from university and found jobs, May moved out as she found a job at the other end of Singapore. I stayed at home with our parents, but kept in constant contact with May. She would visit us during weekends and we would have lunch together to catch up.

It was during this period that I met and fell in love with Edmund*, a charming expat from London whom I met on one of my work trips. Edmund and I got along so well from the get-go, that we started dating after just a few weeks. And three months into our relationship, he proposed to me!

May met Edmund during one of our family lunches, when she came back to visit the family.

I’d told Edmund about my twin sister, but it was still amusing for him to meet another woman who looked exactly like me. And all of us were amused with Edmund as he could not tell us apart – he even walked into the kitchen and placed his hand on May’s back, only to find out that it wasn’t me!

But May took it well and joked that perhaps Edmund should marry the both of us? We laughed it off, but at that time I did not expect that things would really turn out that way…

Because later, during one of my weekly chats with May over the phone she confessed to me that she liked Edmund, and not just as a brother-in-law. She said she had greater feelings beyond that; she revealed that she felt passionate towards him.

Hearing May, I expected to be upset and shocked… but I was not. Somehow I knew May would love Edmund like I did, because we often shared the same passions in the past. Also, May and I had never kept any secrets between us, so I was not surprised that she was so frankwith me.

I decided to do the unthinkable, I suggested to May that she could sometimes date Edmund in my place – without his knowledge. He could not tell us apart anyway.

And at our wedding dinner, when I went out to change into my second gown, it was May who returned in the dress, while I stood in the background pretending to be her. We had a huge wedding and many people at the tables had not seen May and I for many years, since we were children, so we were able to get away with it.

We never told anybody what we did. I just wanted May to experience the most important day in my life in the same way I did, and I was so happy when I saw that she was in tears of joy when Edmund kissed her.

From then on, May and I have occasionally “shared” Edmund. Sometimes, she will have dinner with him after work, instead of me. Or they will go shopping, and she pretends to be me. May and I have promised one another to never reveal this to anyone around us.

Sometimes I feel bad about keeping Edmund in the dark, but the charade has gone on for so long, so how do we tell him? Perhaps one day we may have to reveal what we have done. I love Edmund, but I love May even more. And for now, I just want her to be happy.

Now I’m jealous and want it to stop but am too afraid to let my sister know, because I started this charade.

*Names have been changed to protect privacy.

Original link
http://ghnews360.com/My-husband-doesn-t-know-I-share-him-with-my-twin-sister-Wife-confesses-17920

MEET A MAN WITH THE BIGGEST HIPS AND BUTTS


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A 21 year old internet star simply known as Micah is being tagged the man with the biggest natural hips and buttocks on Instagram.

This assessment is however not too far from the truth.

The 20-year-old aspiring singer says his measurements as of 2015 were chest: 41.5″ waist: 37″ and butt/hips: 63″.

Some of his followers on Instagram do not hesitate to take a swipe at him for looking like a plus size woman whenever he posts a new picture but the young man has continued to flaunt his body.

Micah has even gone as far as dressing like a woman now and learning to do fierce make up that complement his body.

Based on pictures on his Instagram account, his abnormal figure started to develop in his early teens when he realized his hips and butt were quickly increasing in size while his waist and upper body stayed the same.

Since he realized there wasn’t much he could do about it, he decided to embrace his body despite the daily body shaming he received from people.

Micah has not said he is transexual and still keeps his identity as a male and also keeping his genitals.

Original link:
http://ghnews360.com/Meet-man-with-biggest-hips-and-butts-16994

MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD DO THESE 4 THINGS BEFORE BED TIME : LEARN THEM TOO

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    Night time routines do not have to be seen as something negative in your relationship anymore- use the time for your own good. Take advantage of the time you spend together before bed to increase the love between the two of you.


    You can create a new routine together implementing these 4 habits every night, and you will begin to see how the day-to-day tasks will become lighter and happier as a result.

    1. Talk peacefully

  • Soon after bathing take time for your spouse, even if it is only 20 minutes, and talk about what happened in your da.? Ask how work was, discuss your children and their daily activities, address politics or anything else that is interesting between the two of you.
    Try to talk with love and compassion; you do not want to end up fighting before bed. This conversation is not to discuss problems, but to relax with your spouse. Do not discuss highly complicated issues. Conversations regarding conflicts that cannot be resolved in 20 minutes should not take place. Besides, nothing is worse than a heated discussion before bed that can lead to sleepless nights.

    2. Read together

  • Take the time to read each of your favorite books and before you go to bed comment on what you read. Or even read the Bible together to increase your faith and draw closer together spiritually. Reading and learning new things together will help you draw closer together.

    3. Pray together

  • Pray together and pray for your spouse. Offer thanks for having each other in your life. Praying with your spouse is a pure and innocent way to include God in your relationship. Prayers also help the couple be more grateful for one another and recognize the value that their spouse offers in their lives.
    We know that marriage is not easy; it is very laborious. The couple has to face problems together far beyond the problems of coexistence. It is always good to seek God's help to strengthen the relationship. Praying together gives strength to the couple and allows them to move on and face the difficulties of each day.

    4. Small acts of affection

  • Be affectionate with one another. Caress, massage, cuddle, hold hands and kiss. Being physically close to your spouse will help you relax and will relieve everyday stress. A happy and affectionate marriage does not need to be intimate all night to have a happy marriage, but a genuine awareness of being physically close to one another.


    These habits become remedies against the stress of everyday life. It will improve the living, love, harmony and peace in the home. Begin today and implement these 4 habits before bed with your spouse.
    Original link:
    https://familyshare.com/25627/marriage/every-couple-should-do-these-4-things-before-bed

DUUH HARUSI YA MASANJA ILIKUWA FUNIKA BOVU HASA TAZAMA JINSI ALIVYOTOKELEZEA NA WADAU HAPA...


MCHEKESHAJI wa kundi la Orijino Komedi, Emmanuel Mgaya ‘Masanja Mkandamizaji’, Jana ameuaga ukapera kwa kufunga ndoa na mchumba wake wa muda mrefu aitwaye Monica.
Ndoa hiyo imefungwa katika Kanisa la Mito ya Baraka lililopo Jangwani jijini Dar es Salaam.
Miongoni mwa wageni waliohudhuria harusi huyo ni pamoja na Naibu Spika wa Bunge la Jamhuri ya Muungano, Dk. Tulia Ackson.

THESE 29 THINGS PROVE TO YOU THAT YOU HAVE THE BEST HUSBAND THAT DOES NOT CHEAT ON YOU AND SO YOU TOO CAN BEHAVE

  •  
    f you've forgotten what it was that made you fall for him, or if you just want that reassurance again that he's the one, here are 29 signs proving that he's the absolute best.
  • 1. He makes mistakes.

    He's not perfect, and he recognizes that.
  • 2. He makes you feel like you can become the best possible version of yourself.

    Plus, he tells you that you do the same for him.
  • 3. He's dedicated.

    He has direction in his life and a determination to be better than he is now. He also is insanely dedicated to you, and he always will be.
  • 4. He loves your dreams.

    He fell for you in part for your ambitions. He sees the potential in you that you often don't let yourself believe in, and he won't let you settle for mediocre.
  • 5. He loves your crazy.

    You can be quirky or weird with him. He feels like he doesn't have to put on a face with you either.
  • 6. He thinks of you, even and especially when he's angry.

    In heated arguments, he has his opinion but is willing to listen to what you have to say because "being right" is not his first priority. It's you.
  • 7. He tells you that he loves you, over and over again.

    He doesn't overuse the phrase because he actually means it every single time.
  • 8. He would never call you something demeaning.

    His words aren't harsh or biting. One of his biggest fears would be hurting you.
  • 9. He makes you smile.

    You have moments when you look in the mirror and think about how much he loves you, and you can't help but smile after that. What he wants, more than anything, is for you to be happy.
  • 10. He will randomly cook your favorite meal, buy your favorite treat or send you your favorite flowers.

    He wants you to know that you mean the world to him. More than the world.
  • 11. He holds you closer when you're scared.

    Just by the feel of his touch, you know that you're safe and that you will be forever.
  • 12. He is kind.

    He treats you and others with respect. You never worry that he won't take care of you. This one could be the most important trait that makes him the best husband.
  • 13. He forgives you.

    This could be the second-most important trait. He never holds your past mistakes against you. He lets them go and encourages you to do the same.
  • 14. He never wants to let you go.

    He's not pretending to be a young Leonardo DiCaprio, he truly wants to be as close to you as he can.
  • 15. He reminds you of your favorite song.

    Those fantasies you had years ago listening to those love songs have finally come true. You're in awe that life could be this good.
  • 16. He randomly texts you that he misses you, and he means it.

    He is always genuine because honesty means a great deal to him.
  • 17. He smiles and you know it's because he thinks you're beautiful.

    You know that look he gives you when you walk out, even in something as simple as jeans and a T-shirt? That look when he stares at you just a little longer than normal? Again, it's not fake, he honestly thinks you are the most beautiful girl in the world.
  • 18. He doesn't just kiss you goodnight.

    He wants to kiss you as much as you deserve, which is over and over and over again.
  • 19. He kisses you even when you're sick.

    If he wants to kiss you so much that he would risk getting sick himself, he must really love you. Men who only lust after you aren't going to take that risk.
  • 20. He gets your humor.

    You laugh together but not in a way that's belittling to each other or to someone else. You've never laughed more than when you're with him.
  • 21. He wants to tell you everything.

    He realizes that open communication is going to save your relationship. So even if he's quiet around others, he's going to fight for you and tell you even the smallest details. He wants to make this work.
  • 22. He wants to be intimate with you.

    Not just for himself, but to have that strong, emotional connection with you along with the physical. This is one of the best ways he knows to show you just how much you mean to him.
  • 23. He can't imagine a life without you.

    Anytime he makes plans or future goals, he makes them with you in mind. Anything else would be less than perfect.
  • 24. He feels like he's home whenever he's with you.

    You're his new family, and the thought of going back to how it was before you is unfathomable.
  • 25. He would cross oceans for you.

    You definitely know that he's the best when he does something extraordinary for you, something out of his comfort zone.
  • 26. He is grateful.

    Even if you don't think you did much to receive his thanks, he is incredibly appreciative of the little things that you do or say.


  • 27. He loves your children, but he loves you over anything and everything.

    If your kids don't know how much your husband loves you, then he doesn't feel like he's doing the best that he can.
  • 28. He doesn't believe that he deserves you.

    His humility shocks you. He's going to spend the rest of his life trying to be the man that he thinks you deserve.
  • 29. He needs you.

    And he doesn't need anything.
    You've found someone that you love unconditionally. You love him for who he is, and you see his potential just like he sees yours. You know that if you give your all to this relationship, like he continues to do every single day, you will not only make your marriage work, but it will be ...

    Original link:
    https://familyshare.com/25575/marriage/you-know-you-have-the-best-husband-when

THESE ARE 7 THINGS EVERYWOMAN WANTS IN A RELATIONSHIP: MEN YOU NEED TO KNOW SO AS TO PLEASE YOUR WOMAN AND MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL

Men and women are at an emotional stalemate.
We feel something’s lacking in our relationships. The majority of men aren’t able to penetrate their women fully, nor are women fully opening to their men.
Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they need. Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering. When women suffer, and they feel like they aren’t being seen, they close off to their men.
Fortunately, you can learn the right tools to be able to more fully penetrate your woman. You can give your partner what she needs, allowing her to feel seen so that she will open again.
Take the time to read through these needs. Let them sink in. Understanding what you can do to help your partner fully open will not only improve your relationship, but it will improve your entire life.
Here are the seven things that all women want in a relationship.

1. To Feel Loved

When women feel loved, they relax and open to us. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant, and their nurturing feminine energy flows throughout our lives.
Not feeling loved is the subtext of every argument that you and your partner have.
If she is unhappy that you are going out with your friends, or she’s upset about her day at work, or she is only responding to you with brief snippets of sentences, then the cause is most likely her not feeling loved enough.
Learn to see through her words, actions, and moods and see what the real root of it is.

2. To Feel Safe

There is a war being waged on women’s self-esteem, sexuality, and safety from a very young age.
Because of the barrage of disempowering messages being sent to women regarding their sexuality, women need to have a safe space where they feel that they can trust their partners.
She wants to trust your strength. She wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you.
She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something risqué. She wants to know you won’t collapse in defeat if she tells you to do it “This way” instead.
By creating a safe space for your woman to open up to you emotionally and sexually, you will be giving her a very powerful gift- you allow her to grow within your relationship and undo old emotional damage.

3. To Feel Seen

Women want to feel seen.
She wants to feel you hearing her, and being aware of her emotional state.
She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it.
If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less. She will think, “If he can’t see that I am hurting now, how long will it take him to figure it out? Will I be suffering for days or weeks before he is aware of it or cares enough to help me through this? I guess I have to rely on myself for my own emotional support.”
Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship. You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will be witness to her and her journey through life. (Hint: that person is you.)

4. To Be Allowed To Be Nurturing

Just as masculine energy has the need to protect, feminine energy has the desire to nurture.
Women want to see the cracks in our armour. They want to see that we trust them enough to open up to them. They want to be able to help us through our sadness.
An integrated, evolved man who has a balanced masculine energy as well as his own sliver of feminine would welcome his woman’s nurturing.
If you are a guy reading this, have you ever held open a door for a woman because it’s the polite thing to do (but more just because she’s a person and it wasn’t even a gender-based act) and she chews your ear off for it? “Oh what? I can’t open the door for myself because I’m a woman?! You sexist pig!”
That is an example of a wounded, unbalanced woman who doesn’t want to accept help from a masculine source. This is exactly how it feels to your partner when you push her away when you feel the most vulnerable. “I don’t need to lay my head down on your chest and tell you about my feelings because I don’t have any!” That is a lie. It’s a lie that serves your purpose of not letting your partner in. This lack of vulnerability and authenticity is what is making you and your partner suffer.
So let her in. She wants to love you.

Men mess up their relationships in these three specific ways. You have to see this before it’s too late…

5. To Feel Sexually Desired

What’s a major difference between your relationship to your partner and your relationship to everyone else in your life? You have sex with your partner.
Women need to feel sexually desired. They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being.
Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.

6. To Be Appreciated

The feminine in all people responds primarily to praise and appreciation.
Remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life. Show her how much she means to you.
The fastest way to run your relationship into the ground is by ignoring your partner and taking her for granted. Appreciation is the opposite of those things. Appreciation is the embodying this mindset: “I am aware of what you bring to my life, and I want you to be sure that I am aware of it as well.”
So tell her what you appreciate, and tell her often.

7. To Feel Like She Can Count On You

Life gets pretty messy sometimes.
When life’s unavoidable difficulties arise, do you fall apart under pressure or are you able to bend and not break?
Women want to know that we can handle ourselves when life happens. They want to know that we won’t run and hide when they get a bit ‘too emotional’ for our liking. They want to know that they can count on us.
When you tell your partner you’ll do something, and then you don’t do it, it hurts her. She loses a piece of trust in you that has to be earned back. Even seemingly small things break that trust like you saying that you will wash the dishes shortly after dinner, but washing them the next morning instead.
When enough small transgressions like this are sprinkled throughout your relationship, she will distrust you.
Do what you say you will do, be who you say you are, and be consistent in your actions.

Original link:
https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/2013/12/7-things-women-need-in-a-relationship/
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