There are many things women will do for the men they
love. Some go so far as to sacrifice their happiness. However, just
because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the
right thing to do.
Here are 6 things that a woman should never do for the man she loves:
1. Compromise her standards
Your standards and
beliefs are a part of who you are. They reach into the very core of your
being. When someone attempts to change those standards or beliefs, they
are showing you they do not truly love who you are. It is important for
a woman never to settle for a man who does not respect her standards,
no matter how high or strict. Instead, a woman should search for someone
who either shares her standards or admires her because of them. It
might take a while to find him, but he is out there.
2. Change her appearance
It is perfectly natural
for a woman to want to look nice for the man she loves. There is nothing
wrong with spending a little extra time on your hair and makeup before a
date. It is a great opportunity for you to accentuate your natural
beauty and get a little confidence boost from the look on your man's
face when you walk down the stairs. However, you should feel just as
confident walking down those stairs in jeans and a t-shirt as you do in
that blue dress he loves. There is no reason you should feel the need to
be constantly dolled up to perfection. Just be you.
Never
alter your appearance for the approval of a man. If your man pressures
you to dress the way he wants, cut your hair to his liking or alter your
body in any way through cosmetic surgery or dieting, he is not worth
your time. Find someone that thinks you are the most beautiful woman on
earth, even on your bad hair days.
3. Be submissive
Men and women should be equal
partners in a relationship. Both are independent human beings with
different opinions and ways of doing things. Although learning how to
work together might involve adopting new habits and sacrificing the
luxury of getting your own way, one person should not be bending to the
will of the other.
No matter how much you love him, your man does
not control your life. You do. This does not mean that you should never
counsel together when making decisions. It does mean you should not
consider his word to be law. You should never step back and let him push
you around.
4. Hide her intellect
For some crazy reason
women, seem to think acting dumb is attractive. Yes, you shouldn't act
like a know-it-all, but you also shouldn't conceal your intelligence in
order to stroke a man's ego. If you have an opinion, share it. If you
know the answer, say it. Believe it or not, men find it attractive when a
woman is confident, independent and not afraid to admit she has a
brain.
They also find it annoying when a woman acts completely
helpless and incompetent. It is all right if you know how to throw a
football or fix the kitchen sink. Impress your man with your amazing
capability to open a jar without any assistance. Although he might like
rescuing his damsel in distress, he also wouldn't mind having a heroine
around every once in a while.
5. Starve herself
There has been a lie spreading
around that men are only attracted to one body type. This lie has made
women feel the need to risk their health in order to achieve the
unnaturally small waistline of a photoshopped model. This is wrong. You
should never ever deny yourself food in order to be physically appealing
to your man. If your man has fallen in love with you, it means he has
fallen in love with you.Not a model. He most likely finds your
extra curves attractive. Accept the fact that when he says you are
beautiful, he really means it.
Remember that women are often their
worst critics. They put unnecessary pressures on themselves to be or
look a certain way when, in fact, they are perfect just the way they
are. If you really do feel the need to lose some extra weight, there are
many other alternatives to starving yourself. Exercising and following a
healthy diet will aid you in shedding the unwanted pounds and help you
feel like the gorgeous woman you already are.
6. Give up on her dreams
Just because a woman has
found the love of her life, doesn't mean all her dreams have come true.
Everyone has secret hopes, dreams and longings for the future. Being in
a relationship should not mean that you have to give up those dreams
for your sweetheart's. On the contrary! Your man should be providing
encouragement and support to live your dreams.
If you have truly
found the man of your dreams, you shouldn't have to choose between your
man and your dreams. You should be able to have both. So don't give up
your dream to travel the world. Find a way to travel it together. Get a
Ph.D., open up your own shop, run a marathon, pursue your dream of being
an artist. Dream away, and let your man do the same.
original link:
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Growing up, my bff was my sister. We did everything together, from
playing with the same toys, to reading the same books and eating the
same food. We even had the same friends in school.
Woman Explains How She Shares Her Husband With Her Twin Sister
Without Him Knowing; Now She’s Jealous And Want It To Stop But Is Too
Afraid To Let Her Sister Know
This might seem strange to some people, but it’s because May* is my twin sister… and they say twins share an affinity.
I have never felt that I needed anyone else in my life other than
May. She’s not just a sister and best friend, she’s my confidante whom I
can trust all my secrets to. Even when we went to different colleges,
our bonds did not break.
We might have developed some different friends and priorities then,
but we still talked about everything and shared everything… from new
interests to gossip in school… and cute boys we liked.
Not long after we both graduated from university and found jobs, May
moved out as she found a job at the other end of Singapore. I stayed at
home with our parents, but kept in constant contact with May. She would
visit us during weekends and we would have lunch together to catch up.
It was during this period that I met and fell in love with Edmund*, a
charming expat from London whom I met on one of my work trips. Edmund
and I got along so well from the get-go, that we started dating after
just a few weeks. And three months into our relationship, he proposed to
me!
May met Edmund during one of our family lunches, when she came back to visit the family.
I’d told Edmund about my twin sister, but it was still amusing for
him to meet another woman who looked exactly like me. And all of us were
amused with Edmund as he could not tell us apart – he even walked into
the kitchen and placed his hand on May’s back, only to find out that it
wasn’t me!
But May took it well and joked that perhaps Edmund should marry the
both of us? We laughed it off, but at that time I did not expect that
things would really turn out that way…
Because later, during one of my weekly chats with May over the phone
she confessed to me that she liked Edmund, and not just as a
brother-in-law. She said she had greater feelings beyond that; she
revealed that she felt passionate towards him.
Hearing May, I expected to be upset and shocked… but I was not.
Somehow I knew May would love Edmund like I did, because we often shared
the same passions in the past. Also, May and I had never kept any
secrets between us, so I was not surprised that she was so frankwith me.
I decided to do the unthinkable, I suggested to May that she could
sometimes date Edmund in my place – without his knowledge. He could not
tell us apart anyway.
And at our wedding dinner, when I went out to change into my second
gown, it was May who returned in the dress, while I stood in
the background pretending to be her. We had a huge wedding and many
people at the tables had not seen May and I for many years, since we
were children, so we were able to get away with it.
We never told anybody what we did. I just wanted May to experience
the most important day in my life in the same way I did, and I was so
happy when I saw that she was in tears of joy when Edmund kissed her.
From then on, May and I have occasionally “shared” Edmund. Sometimes,
she will have dinner with him after work, instead of me. Or they will
go shopping, and she pretends to be me. May and I have promised one
another to never reveal this to anyone around us.
Sometimes I feel bad about keeping Edmund in the dark, but the
charade has gone on for so long, so how do we tell him? Perhaps one day
we may have to reveal what we have done. I love Edmund, but I love May
even more. And for now, I just want her to be happy.
Now I’m jealous and want it to stop but am too afraid to let my sister know, because I started this charade.
*Names have been changed to protect privacy.
Original link
http://ghnews360.com/My-husband-doesn-t-know-I-share-him-with-my-twin-sister-Wife-confesses-17920
You and your partner don’t have any financial secrets, do you?
There’s the joint bank account, the Christmas savings fund and the big jar in the front room where you chuck your lose change.
Well, we don’t want to worry you or anything, but it seems your beloved might be hiding a guilty secret...
For,
according to a new survey, one in ten of us has a secret “escape fund” -
a stash of cash hidden away from our partner in case we want to cut and
run.
The Money Advice Service discovered 11% of men and 8% of
women have saved up dosh to help them flee a failing relationship. And
the average amount in these get-out accounts is a whopping £7,500!
Makes you think, doesn’t it? If we can keep THAT secret, what else do we hide from our other halves?
TIL DEAF DO US PART
Men
only listen to their partners for six minutes before tuning out – but
will pay attention to their mates for a quarter of an hour (and more if
they’re chatting about footy!)
Women have long suspected they are
much better listeners but a survey of 2,000 men by Ladbrokes last year
revealed how easily they switch off.
The average bloke admits to
four occasions a week when he isn’t listening to his partner, but should
be, and that he’s most likely to tune out if she’s talking about
workmates, people the’ve never met or celebs and reality stars.
Women
know though! 55% say they regularly test their partner to double check
he’s listening... by the time he takes to respond to a question or the
blank look in his eyes.
EX-AGGERATION
Men and women both
fib about the number of previous sexual partners they have had... but
women divide their number by three while men multiply it.
A survey for MyCelebrityFashion.co.uk discovered 52% of women had played down their past conquests with 78% believing it would make them more desirable.
And 38% of men and women admit they’ve lied about the real reasons they split from their exes.
NOT COMING CLEAN
Lazy men have admitted deliberately messing up household chores so their partners don’t ask them to do it again.
Researchers
found three in ten blokes regularly do a bad job of the washing up or
cleaning in the hope their other half will tell them not to bother
again. They admitted to squirting a bit of bleach down the toilet
instead of cleaning it properly, leaving smears on mirrors and dusting
around objects instead of moving them.
And it seems to be working!
Bathroom retailer Victoria Plumb,
who carried out the survey, discovered two thirds of women don’t trust
their partner to do the cleaning, with 60% saying it was easier to do it
themselves.
BARE FACED CHEATS
One in 20 women admit they’ve never let their partners see them without a full-face of make-up.
According
to a QVS Beauty Tools survey 40% say they deliberately hide their daily
beauty regimes while 30% don’t tell their other halves they use fake
tan or have hair extensions.
And a quarter of women said they
would be “mortified” if their partner caught them waxing their bikini
line or plucking nasal hair.
But that’s fine by the fellas. Seven
out of ten would rather not know what goes on behind the bathroom door
and just one in 10 said they’d be shocked to learn that their other half
wore suck-in pants or fake tan.
BOTTOM LINE
“Does my bum look big in this, darling?”
One
in ten men admit they’ve thought “Yes”, but smiled and said “Of course
not,” for fear of upsetting their partner and ruining their weekend.
In a survey commissioned by clothing retailer very.co.uk
70% of men said they were scared of answering the question honestly and
a quarter had lied about how their partner looked in an outfit just so
they wouldn’t have to continue shopping.
A fifth of men also feared a negative comment would never be forgotten and “used against them at a later date.”
MIrrorpix
BREAK AWAY
A third of women admit they feel LESS
attracted to their partners after a holiday abroad and one in six would
rather travel with a relative. Sunshine.co.uk polled 2,364 women who recently returned from couples break and discovered the romantic holiday became a passion killer.
Sunburn
and heat stroke put them off romping while 35% said spending too much
time together got on their nerves. Another quarter said their man drank
too much and 19% was upset because their partner was ogling other women!
WOULD YOU CREDIT IT?
One
in ten people admit separating or divorcing a partner over hidden
credit card sprees. Another one in ten say secret credit card spending
has caused arguments in their relationships while 15% confess to lying
to their significant other about the amount they put on plastic.
A survey of 1,000 people by Moneysupermarket.com
showed 36% of those had lied because they knew their partner would be
angry, and that women have much guiltier consciences and are 60% more
likely to hide a statement from their other half.
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FAKING IT
More than a quarter of women admit to faking orgasm every time they have sex.
In 2012 the same worldwide survey found a third of men had faked at least once and 40% were dissatisfied with their sex lives.
It
also revealed that weight gain was a major issue in how people felt
about their partners – with half of men saying they’d dump a partner who
got fat while 67% of women would stay with their chubby other half.
And women are twice as likely to discuss their sexual preferences with their mates as they are to tell their partners.
On
a girls’ night out 34% will gossip about what they get up to in the
bedroom, but only 16% share sex talk with their men, even on a “date
night.”
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SNEAKY SNACKERS
More than a quarter of women admit
to regularly eating in secret and 55% keep their chomping hidden from
husbands and boyfriends.
A poll of 2,000 women by weight loss
firm LighterLife found six in ten women sneakily eat foods they know
they shouldn’t and 23% hide food wrappers and bury‘evidence’ in the bin.
E-MALES
One in five men have a secret email account
they use to hide correspondence from their partner. Two thirds of all
men choose not to share their passwords with their other half and 23%
admit to being secretive about what’s stored on their phone and PC.
More than one in twenty men also admit the have been dumped because of what their partner found on their mobile phone.
A
poll by an internet security firm found 20% of men who keep emails
hush-hush said there were certain aspects of their life their spouse
just didn’t need to know about.
On top of that one quarter of men said they would be left red faced if someone went through their ‘Google’ history.
Original link:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/sex-relationships/relationships/revealed-secrets-your-half-keeps-5119015
The
woman you sleep with gazes into your eyes and tells you she loves you.
And you believe her. You can tell by the way she looks at you, the way
she holds you, the way she seems to always know what you want before you
do.
There are a few of things in life you just know, and how much you
love this naked woman is one of them. But there are a lot of things you don't know.
A woman may give you her body and her heart, but there are parts that
she’ll never give up. Pieces woven into the very fiber of her being.
Mysteries only hinted at in a passing sly smile....
11. She has discovered your porn stash and your frequently visited porn sites.
And she thinks the things that turn you on are hilarious. (Like these Strange Categories of Internet Porn.)
12. When she says, "I'm ready," she'll need exactly 7 more minutes to get ready.
Don’t try to cheat the system by showing up 7 minutes later; She will still need an extra 7 minutes.
13. When she says, "I'll meet you in 15 minutes," she means she will leave in 15 minutes.
And thus, she won’t actually arrive for at least 30 (but probably more like 40).
14. You’ve made her cry more times than you’ll ever know.
15. She obsesses about when you’re going to call her again.
The period of time between your first date and your “Thanks for a
great night; when can I see you again?” always seems stretched into slow
motion.
So don’t worry about looking too eager. Call. Even if you only wait
until noon the day after, it will feel like a lifetime to her.
And don’t send her an email or text unless you want her to put you in the figurative trash can along with your message.
17. At the beginning of your relationship, she saves all of
your voice mails and listens to them (and make her friends listen, too),
repeatedly.
18. She might wear granny underwear and purposely not shave her legs because she likes you.
As crazy as it sounds, the more she likes you, the less likely she is
to sleep with you on an early date, because she doesn’t want to
sabotage having a "proper" relationship with you.
So she just might purposely hunt out the ugliest underwear in her
drawer and not shave her legs—all to prevent herself from getting naked
with you too soon.
Sometimes she might get a little tipsy or carried away, and this plan will backfire.
19. She split the cost of her fashion purchases over two or more credit cards.
So you don't notice the gargantuan deficit.
20. She's constantly testing you.
She observes, analyzes, and judges every action, word, gesture, email, and facial expression.
When she asks you if you want to have a threesome, she doesn’t mean
it. If you want her to speak to you again, let alone sleep with you
after this conversation, the answer should always be, “Why would I want
to sleep with another woman when I have you?”
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21. She checks out your butt every time you leave the room.
(Make sure she likes what she sees. Learn how to Build a Butt Woman Will Want to Grab.)
22. She needs constant indications that you want her around.
That's why it’s better, for example, to say, “I want you to come away
with me for the weekend. Could you come with me?” than to ask, “What
are you up to this weekend?”
23. She loves it when you get a little jealous.
So if you ever see her flirting in front of you with the waiter, the
bus driver, or another guy at a party, know she's actually flirting with
you—through him.
24. Even though she may complain that she doesn’t see you
enough (or that you work too hard), she finds nothing sexier than
watching you put on a suit in the morning and rush off to work.
25. She starts fights with you because she's feeling ignored.
She's trying to force emotion out of you. Don’t retreat into your
cave; just give her what she wants: some attention. And never tell her
to “calm down,” unless you want to guarantee that she absolutely won’t.
26. Even if she insists on paying or splitting the bill on your first date, she’ll think you're cheap if you let her.
(For more smart money moves, see the 7 Financial Habits of Highly Laid Men.)
27. She may find your best friend repulsive, but she's fantasized about sleeping with him.
Not because she wants him, but because she wants a piece of a guy who is so close to you.
28. If she's going to break up with you, all of her friends know way before you do.
She's been talking about it for 2 weeks.
29. When you and her do break up, she'll put all photographs
of you and mementos of your relationship in a shoe box and store it in
her closet.
Just in case she gets nostalgic. Just in case you come back.
30. She wants you to take control in bed.
Yes, she has a successful career, she's financially independent, she
lives on her own, and she doesn’t need a man to make her happy (in
theory). She still wants you to pick her up, carry her to the bedroom,
and take without asking.
Original link:
http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/30-secrets-every-woman-keeps-from-her-man
There is no such thing as a perfect match or a soap-opera
romance. Symphonies don't sound when real-life couples kiss. Yet, life
is much more intense than the dramatic television shows we eagerly
watch.
Although your own love life is not like the movies, if you know who you are and what you like, you can create a remarkable love.
If
you were to write up a list of all the characteristics you are looking
for in a man, I would venture to say you would have at least 10 things
on it: physical appearance, profession, social status, economic status,
sense of humor, personality, goals, religion, political views, hobbies,
etc.
However, we go through life and sooner or later we realize
there is no perfect human being who meets all the characteristics on our
list. This realization then makes us prioritize our list of qualities. Research shows there are really only a few things needed for a relationship to survive.
If your partner provides you with these four things, your relationship will flourish in love.
Tenderness and loyalty
These two qualities create a strong emotional connection.
Loyalty,
or fidelity, is a sign he is committed and connected to you. But it is
much more than a commitment; it is a promise that he will be with you no
matter what. A man is loyal and faithful when he places his wife's
needs above his own. He exhibits this faithfulness when he understands
the needs of his wife will not always be the same as his own. He is
loyal and true when he respects his children and chooses to never stop
loving you no matter what.
Tenderness, or affection, goes right
along with loyalty. And if your husband is completely loyal and
expresses his loyalty tenderly, there is no doubt he loves you. Only
love causes a human being to behave this way.
Vitality and passion
It is no wonder most male
models are muscular and strong in appearance. Women are undeniably
attracted to men who exude an ability to protect and provide for them.
While
everyone tells you that physical appearance is not important, that is
not entirely true. What is certain is that the man you love does not
have to be a magazine model. All he has to do is meet certain
expectations you involuntarily feel.
These requirements are not about muscles; rather they are about what being with him does to your body, mind and heart.
If
the man by your side revives you and makes you excited to be near him,
there is no doubt he makes you feel protected. His energy revitalizes
you.
Intimacy between the two of you plays an important role in
the health of your relationship. And intimacy is more than what happens
between the two of you in the bedroom. It is the chemistry you feel when
you're around one another. It is the magic that occurs when you find
him to be the sexiest and most handsome guy in the world (even if the
rest of humanity does not agree).
If your man provides you with
tenderness, loyalty, vitality and passion, do not be afraid to show him
your appreciation. Let him know of your love for him - it will ensure
the man of your dreams never leaves your side.
Reportedly, women with bigger bums like socialites are likely to
give birth more intelligent children.That’s because fat found in their
thighs and bottoms are needed to develop babies’ brains, scientists
said.
Academics claim that these ‘fat banks’ play a vital role in fuelling
the development of newborns’ brains during breast-feeding – with a
woman’s behind acting as a reserve for vital nutrients.
The study suggests that the ability of women to retain large fat
reserves on their legs and buttocks was a vital element in survival and
the evolution of intelligence.
Professor Will Lassek, a public health epidemiologist at Pittsburgh
University in the United States, said: “The fat in these areas are also
enriched in DHA (docosahexaenoic acid) which is a particularly important
component in the human brain.
It looks as if women have evolved to accumulate these fats and hold
on to them until a baby arrives.”Prof Lassek, whose latest research into
the link between DHA intake and intelligence was published in his book
Why Women Need Fat, added: “It has always been a complete mystery why
women have so much fat. Mammals’ and primates’ bodies typically have
about five to 10 percent of fat but in human women that rises to 30
percent on average.
This is similar to the levels seen in bears going into hybernation or
whales living in cold Arctic seas. Women have traded muscle for fat so
they are about a third as strong.”This must be good news to local
socialites who have been getting a lot of criticism, with some Kenyans
putting their intelligence to doubt.
Prof Lassek and his co-author Steven Gaulin, a professor of
evolutionary psychology at the University of California, Santa Barbara,
have shown how vital the fat stored in women’s bottoms and thighs is to
babies’ brains.
Prof Lassek said: “During nursing, the ‘fat bank’ is mobilised so the
DHA stored there becomes available for the growing brain.”About 80
percent of the DHA needed by a baby’s brain comes from a mother’s stored
fat.
Less than one percent of body fat is DHA so a lot of fat has to be
shifted. That’s why lactating women may lose a pound of fat a
month.”David Bainbridge, a reproductive biologist at Cambridge
University who has also studied the female body shape, said the latest
findings could explain why men find curvy women, such as singer Nicki
Minaj, so attractive.
But this idea isn’t new: Research dating back to 2007 showed that
gluteofemoral fat is key in producing smart offspring.In fact, Lassek
even hypothesized men could be attracted to women with large bottoms as
an evolutionary way of ensuring successful children.
As with all studies, it’s important to note fitness and diet are also
important to overall bodily health. Hourglass-shaped bodies, if they’re
not cared for properly, can be just as unhealthy as those who carry
weight around the core.The bottom line? Girls, stay active and healthy,
because carrying “good” fat below the waist is most likely the result of
genetics.
Original link:
http://ghnews360.com/Women-with-big-Butts-give-birth-to-intelligent-kid-5976
You may feel that there's little you can do to change how
attractive you are. However, there are small changes that anyone can do
with little time and effort that can influence the way people perceive
how attractive you are.
Do these 8 things to make people think you're more attractive than you actually are.
1. Avoid small talk
Experiments have been done that
compare people who talk about surface issues with people who talk about
deeper topics. These studies show that people who talk about themselves,
their beliefs or their passions believe that their partners are more
attractive than those who discuss the weather or other shallow subjects.
2. Eye contact
When you meet someone new, note what
color their eyes are. You will look into their eyes just a bit more than
you normally would. That extra eye contact can make you appealing to
the other person.
3.Personal Hygiene
There's no accounting for what a
good shower can do for your attractiveness. You smell better, your hair
looks nicer, and it shows that you value yourself. Also, don't forget
to brush those teeth, trim that beard, and use deodorant. These things
will do wonders.
4. Hand Gestures
People rate those who use hand
gestures as more engaging and confident, characteristics that are
valued. Use hand gestures to up your attractiveness.
5. Dress well
You might not have control over how
your nose looks (barring any plastic surgery related modifications), but
you can decide what clothes go on your body. Believe it or not, what
you choose to wear has a great effect on the level of your
attractiveness. In fact, even if you're not a particularly gorgeous gal,
people will think you're more attractive if you dress well.
6. Smile
People who smile are rated as more
attractive than those who don't so if you want to be better looking,
just show those pearly whites.
7. Play hard to get
At least for men, this can be a
useful tactic. Studies show that women are more likely to be interested
in men when they can't figure out whether or not he's interested in
them. It's hypothesized that this is because women think a lot about the
guy while trying to figure out if he likes them. Because she is
thinking so much about the guy, the she concludes that she must like
him.
8. Smell good
Having a nice scent triggers people's
brains to make you seem more attractive over all. A small spritz of
perfume or cologne can make you seem better looking.
Original link:
https://familyshare.com/23038/health/8-ways-to-appear-more-attractive-than-you-are
Women seem to notice everything that is "wrong" with another
woman. They can easily spot any makeup disaster, ugly hairdo or tacky
outfit. But what about men? Will those who understand nothing of fashion
or feminine things also notice when a woman is ill-groomed?
The
answer is yes. Most men can tell when a woman is trying too hard and
not pulling something off. Here are 10 things they hate most:
1. Extreme hairstyles
A woman with hair full of
volumizing product and variously placed bobby pins walks into the room.
You think she will attract the attention of all the men at the party.
Will it attract attention? Yes, but I doubt if any man wants to get near
that rat's nest for any other reason than to see what is holding all of
it up. Most men prefer long, loose, soft and silky hair, not sticky
hairspray and hard gels.
2. Masked faces
Foundation is used to hide
imperfections, fine lines and blemishes. However, it should be applied
as a thin, even layer, and in a shade that blends right in to your skin.
Overuse can make it look like you came out with a layer of clay on your
face. When applied correctly, no one should be able to tell that you
are hiding imperfections on your face. Remember, less is always more.
3. Sticky eyelashes
You know that effect when a
woman uses too much mascara -- her eyelashes all stick together and
smear black with each blink. Nothing about that look is attractive. Use
good quality mascara that dries quickly and does not smudge. After
applying, use an eyelash brush to remove any excess off of your lashes.
Men love beautiful and expressive eyes, free of black clumps.
4. Too much glitter
If you are not a professional
makeup artist, it is probably best to stick to the matte shadows. They
adhere better and are less likely to concentrate in the crease of your
eyelid.
5. Yellow teeth and bad breath
Yellow teeth and
bad breath are not attractive to anyone. If you struggle in this area,
you should realize that the source of the problem is probably found in
poor hygiene. Or maybe you need to cut back on the coffee, black tea or
red wine, or lose the cigarettes. Whatever it is, address the source of
your problem, and try adding whitening toothpaste and dental floss to
brighten your smile. Lozenges or sugar-free breath sprays also help a
lot.
6. Lack of body care
Poorly manicured nails,
hairy legs and unshaven armpits are major turn-offs for men. Poor
personal hygiene cannot be hidden by makeup and nice clothes.
7. Dry or oily skin
Yes, men notice. The sight of
a dried heel, oily face or peeling skin is a warning to "back off."
Don't expect to turn him on with cracked lips.
Lipstick is a great tool to make
your lips more beautiful and defined. But beware, if misused, the lip
liner pencil can become your enemy. When going out for dinner, use a
lipstick and liner close to the color of your lips. Dark lipstick colors
have the awful tendency to smudge onto your teeth while you are talking
or eating -- not a pleasant sight for those who are watching. Also,
remember that dark lip liner paired with lighter lipstick leaves an aged
appearance.
10. Perfume overload
Excesses are always a bad
idea. Remember, the more expensive the perfume, the less you should use.
The cheaper the perfume, the less you should use. So try to put a drop
only in certain points such as the neck, behind the ears and wrists. A
little bit of a good perfume is plenty.
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A better
way to say this is that he thinks you are the most beautiful woman in
the world and has thought so since the day he met you. He feels
tremendously lucky he has a wife he finds so extremely attractive.
With this attraction comes a desire to be intimate, to appreciate your beauty in a way only he can.
Reason #2: He enjoys feeling wanted
Just like
you, your husband wants to feel ... well, wanted by you. Meaning, he
wants to know you are as attracted to him as he is attracted to you.
He
can know you want him in a variety of ways like by you saying how
handsome he is, telling him how much you love him, hugging him and
kissing him; but, like most men, the way that he can really know you
want him is by having sex with him. Your husband will attribute you
being willing to be intimate with him to you thinking he is attractive
and truly loving him.
Reason #3: It's more than a physical act
Again,
this may come as a surprise, but because you are his wife and not some
random chick, sex for him is way beyond just the physical act itself. To
him, sex is now making love, a way to connect with you both physically
and emotionally.
He wants to satisfy you as much as he wants you to satisfy him, and he feels immense joy when you can both enjoy sex together.
Reason #4: He enjoys it more now than when you were newlyweds
Sometimes
as women we begin to have certain insecurities the longer we are
married. We think to ourselves, "Am I still attractive?" "Have I lost my
mojo?" "I don't have the same body I did when we were first married ...
Does he still want me?"
The truth is he probably wants you more
now than he ever has. This is because you have spent significant time
together experiencing things he has never experienced with anyone else.
His love has grown deeper and more intimate; so, in turn, making love to
you is now a deeper and more intimate experience than when you were
first married.
Reason #5: He loves you
This reason can be found
throughout all of the other reasons; still, it is the most important one
to mention and the most obvious.
Your husband enjoys having sex
with you because he loves you so much and he wants to show it. He will
obviously try to show it in many different ways, and physical intimacy
is one of them. For him, it is a time for just you two, a time to
connect with you and renew your love.
Whatever the reasons are
behind men liking sex so much, for your husband, the real reason he
enjoys having sex is because he get's to have it with his wonderful and
beautiful wife.
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